I was recently accused of not being able to take care of myself. The accusser even mentioned to the extend that I am not even fit to be a mother. Harsh. I didnt know what else to say. How does this person know if I will be a good mother or not when I dont even have a kid?

It sadden me that this person said these things to me. I cant shake it off since this person first mentioned it. It saddens me that I am being judged to this extend. I know that there are still rooms for improvements (what not? every single thing that we do today, right now, has rooms for improvements.) that doesnt means that this person can judge me so harshly, isnt it?

I guess that’s reality. We were all thought not to “judge book by it’s cover”. But we all lived our lifes judging others by their cover. And by judging that, we all assumed things, and make our own conclusions.

I wish I wouldnt care so much on what this person said to me.

But unfortunately, I care every bit.

And it hurts.