Posted by: Laundrygal | February 1, 2008

How do you become a happy person?

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10122389ahappy-posters.jpgWhat is happiness? How do you become one happy person?

To really put in words to say what happiness really is is overrated. How do you justify what happiness really is, and what’s not?

For me, happiness is all about being happy with what’s going on, despite what’s the measurement by others. To be a happy person doesnt means that we have to be filty rich nor to own lots of possession in materials, or even climb to the highest ladder. Yeah. These may be the desire that each and everyone of us seek or trust to bring us happiness in our lifes. And you are right, these bring greatness and pleasure. I admit that I too, am striving to fullfil the desire of having or owning something that I thought will bring me great happiness.

Most of us dream the highest mountain, look forward and fight for the goal that we wanted. Despite the pain we would/expect to go thru, we often think that the pain will be paid off in the end. We continue to look forward and charge. Like the armies in the war.

Often, we forget how to stop and think for awhile. We may even forget how to appreciate or admire what we have at present,what is around us, and what is in front of us.  

Often, I forgot the beauty of present. Often, I forgot how to apprehend. Often, I forgot how lucky I am now. 

With him at my side now, tugging next to me, sleeping with a peaceful face that is constantly flashing smiles that curls up once in awhile, reminds me of how happy I am. The feeling is extraordinary. Like fireworks exploded with colourful lights creating patterns of flowers or style, that lit up every single face that looked upon, creating a smile. The feeling is indescribable.

Knowing that he loves me with all his heart brings smiles, joy and flutter to the heart.

Knowing that I can love this person with my whole heart without doubts brings me to the next level of happiness.

I am content at this moment. *Smile*

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  1. i often too have issues with being happy. i am most happy with myself. i indulge in other peoples happiness. i love to see people happy, it makes me happy. but i have issues with making my lover happy. when ever and what ever i try to do that i think will make him happy, it gets turned aaround on me in a negative way. i think of how it is my fault, and sometimes i beleive it is my lover that is not happy with himself therefore he is very unhappy in ALL aspects in life. i choose to be happy even if he is not sometimes because i know sooner or later he will realize being happy is better than the “bummed out” mood.


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